In a group therapy session, a discussion arose concerning the impact each person in the group was having on the world around him. The groupleader asked each member in turn what they would like the people at their funeral to say about them. The answers were the typical assortment of vague fluffy ideal-person statements, until finally the therapist came to the last person.What do you want the people at your funeral to say, Charles? she asked the man, who had obviously been thinking hard.I want them to say, Look! Hes alive!